Surviving Adolescence.
During the period of adolescence, children may engage in a difficult dance with parents are other adults in their lives.
The search for independence paired with the strong desire to stay close and connected makes everything so complicated.
As social interests outside the family develop, the child/parent connection becomes less of a priority, sometimes resulting in a lack of communication.
Emotional outbursts are likely to occur. Not knowing what to do can be stressful for both the parent and the child.
The relationship between parent and child can start to seem impossible.
Becoming an adult is not easy.
As your child moves through this transition, from being a teenager to becoming an adult, they experience a plethora of changes, some having both positive and negative effects.
Adolescents are under pressure to perform, get good grades, follow the rules, and find their way.
They strive to develop their own identity, and this involves development of relationships with their peers.
At times, parents might perceive adolescent behavior as being self-centered and rebellious – and to an extent, they are right.
Adolescents sometimes need help, because stress during this transition can lead to anxiety, panic, and depression in teens.
In addition, parenting an adolescent can be just as challenging. You are struggling to be supportive and set good boundaries, but no manual ensures you get it right all the time.
Seeking help can make the transition smoother.
I’m here to support you and your teen through this delicate time.
An essential part of my approach is to help an adolescent recognize their self-worth, no matter what is going on with their grades or their peers.
At the same time, I’ll help you, the parent, understand yourself so that you can be a more confident, effective parent. Part of this begins with both the parent and teenager learning how to communicate with each other effectively.
Adolescents sometimes need help because stress during this transition can lead to anxiety, panic, and depression.
The key is knowing that your child needs you during this time, and clear advice and support can help make the transition easier for the both of you.
Self-love can replace anxiety, and connection can win over conflict.
Let’s work together to meet the challenges of this transition. Both of you will be much happier at the outcome.
Contact me at (719) 749-6860 today!